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rm_JoseAFC 57 M
4  questions
PHOTOS - 6/29/2008

Only been on this site for a week but wondered if there was any way of tracking who graded/voted for photos? Any advice welcome although I suspect privacy/anonymity are the key here? Cheers............

14 response(s), 18 votes
brendamariana 33 F
5  questions
new encounters - 6/29/2008

What are the signs that you would give to a person you have just met few minutes ago to tell her/him that you really being turned on and you want that person in bed then and there ? (I mean phyisical signs not words)

21 response(s), 28 votes
brendamariana 33 F
5  questions
sex life (for guys and girls) - 6/29/2008

When Is it a good time to realise that you sex life has shifted from healthy process to an obsession ? and how to go about it without having to go see a specialist?

15 response(s), 17 votes
rm_othrwhtmeat 38 M
7  questions
regarding profile viewing - 6/28/2008

Okay, I know that everyone has the choice of not letting other members know that their profiles have been viewed, hot listed, etc. by choosing that option in their profile preference page. But why would anyone choose to do that at all? If they are going to do that, why not allow others to know so that they can find out if there might be mutual interest? I recently was hot listed multiple times, ...

12 response(s), 26 votes
swtcouple4fun 60 C
36  questions
compatibility, - 6/28/2008

1. Star for the compatibility, in what basis can they tell? 2. Do you base on the star, before you look up their profile?

15 response(s), 16 votes
HotNWildHoney 52 F
1  question
Do you have an amazing fantasy that you fulfilled? - 6/28/2008

If you did, was it as good in reality as you imagined? Did it lose its power as a fantasy?

22 response(s), 20 votes
midniteroses1966 46 F
3  questions
what is hotter - 6/28/2008

when you are bisexual what is hotter about the other woman. breast or her lips or her butt .

18 response(s), 28 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
Amusement Park Rides - Safe or Not? - 6/28/2008

What's your opinion? Are amusement park rides safe?

Every year there are casualties related to amusement park rides. For the most part, I think they are safe. Compared to any other activity, I don't think there's any greater risk factor than gettin' in to your car and driving.

19 response(s), 20 votes
brendamariana 33 F
5  questions
fruit - 6/28/2008

Is it ok to use fruit like banana and vegetables as sex toys? If any one have tried this can you share your experience?

19 response(s), 32 votes
What gets you in the mood for 'play time'? - 6/28/2008

As usual it is different for different people. but what about you?

I have given some sugestions below





The Hopeless Romantic - Candles, poetry, soft music, bubble bath



An Enchanted Evening - Flowers, dinner, shampagne, a night out, then in



Sexy Seduction - Luscious lingerie, suggestive notes, hot photos or movies

...

10 response(s), 28 votes
300Striker 48 M
2  questions
permission verification - 6/28/2008

The wife and are are swingers. We have been for years and have enjoyed it all. We have given each other permission to join others without each other. My question is couples don't seem to believe you when you say your wife has given you permission. Is there a way to convince ppl?How can you show them it's true?

11 response(s), 22 votes
twoforone100 53 C
6  questions
a question for couples that swing - 6/28/2008

With summer here and it is the travel season do you ( couples who swing) like to play on the road? How do you going about looking in your vacation spot? Do you search? Do you look in advance or once you get there? Do you use the local chat room? How do you feel about people traveling to your area? Do you play with travelers?

Lets hear from you?



Patrick Pattie

5 response(s), 6 votes
rm_koric69 32 M
1  question
Lingerie - 6/28/2008

What is your favorite type of lingerie? Is it a sexy nighty, a camisole, or garters? Mine would be a corset with garters. That is just sexy to me.

10 response(s), 22 votes
MAW_n_servzwolf 60 C
26  questions
TAHNK YOU - 6/28/2008

I wanted to say thank you to all those answered my question. I do have a doc appt. wed and i will ask her ALOT of questions and some tests done. I have put it off too long guess i didnt want to hear im getting old lol. Good luck with whatever your loking for.

3 response(s), 10 votes
A big wet kiss to you all. - 6/28/2008

This is not a question, just an expression of gratitude for all your lovely input regarding my last question re an awkward situation.

Thank you!

I know we all have had our differences with each other in the past and the advice line can be a place of vitriol and pettiness all too often, but when you all feel like it you can be a great bunch of people , dispensing really well ...

8 response(s), 10 votes
jolielaide 52 F
53  questions
what would you do? - 6/28/2008

people marry for their own reasons, right? so i'm just going to ask this w/o giving all the boring details except for one - love has nothing to do with it. they know you don't love them but want to marry anyway. would you marry someone for money?

17 response(s), 26 votes
_JKH_ 69 M
454  questions
Who's getting some tonight? - 6/28/2008

Well? ...

26 response(s), 44 votes
Im4orgasms 62 M
6  questions
Friends with Benefits? - 6/28/2008

Could someone actually explain to me what friends with benefits really means? It is used on the time here but I am not sure if it refers to sex, money, mountain condos, beach vacations...what.

14 response(s), 20 votes
Onehotlady13 57 F
1  question
How do I... - 6/28/2008

I have always thought about having sex with more than one person at the same time; I am assuming most people do fantasize about this.

Is it normal to be turned on by this for a woman? Do many women have this desire or fantasy?

I wonder how many women have actually fulfilled this desire. I would think it is much more than those who actually admit or advertise it here on AdultFriendFinder.

10 response(s), 11 votes
HornySatyrCam 33 M
5  questions
Non-Phys. Tips? - 6/28/2008

Ok, on a non-physical level during intercourse, what are the best things to do to enhance the experience?

18 response(s), 35 votes
I_love_petites2 33 M
2  questions
How FAR away does your "perfect" mate live? - 6/27/2008

Hi,

I think it's obvious and common sense that everyone looks for a date, a hook-up (or something else) locally... but just out of curiosity:

if you searched for the perfect girl or the perfect guy, that matches all the criteria you're looking for, within the entire U.S., where would they be?

If U answer this question, briefly describe that person, and tell us how far ...

24 response(s), 18 votes
rm_sxsrch3 32 M
34  questions
For the Ladies.. - 6/27/2008

What sort of things tend to catch your eye when you look over an email/message?



What sort of things tend to catch you eye when you look at a profile?

What sort of pictures do you prefer in a profile? Nude, face, body, dick for example.

10 response(s), 15 votes
Randy4lickin 47 M
1  question
f'n AdultFriendFinder and their damn points - 6/27/2008

I used 100 points to view a hot membre profile and clicked on something and the damn page went to the fucking order form. Should I be pissed, or just find a good webcam and jack off and forget about it?

20 response(s), 23 votes
jbirdlover69 45 C
1  question
To bang or not to bang? - 6/27/2008

I have a fantasy of watching my wife participate in a gangbang. Does anyobody out there have any advise? Have you had the same fantasy cum true and if so was it what you imagined???

27 response(s), 27 votes
CLASSICROCK2008 57 F
1  question
JUST THINKING - 6/27/2008

I was just on another site, And i wrote my answer to the question of the week.When i clicked update, The message came back, It will take up to 48 hours for the change to take effect.I was thinking i would like to have this job.lol, Has any one ever thought about this, That there is some who actually sits and read this stuff.

7 response(s), 11 votes
ladies - 6/27/2008

Where are all the ladies that are suppose to be here and why don't they answer their messages especially the local ladies.

15 response(s), 18 votes
einar24 67 M
1  question
Cum on - 6/27/2008

Lets talk cum.

what differences are there, and are any better than others? What can affect the texture, color, quantity, or other aspects of come? What affect does a vasectomy have?

12 response(s), 17 votes
BlackPussyRules 59 M
4  questions
Winks - 6/27/2008

Can someone please tell me how other standard members can wink at me? I cannot wink at people despite being currently able to look at profiles.

8 response(s), 8 votes
swtcouple4fun 60 C
36  questions
judging - 6/27/2008

1. Do you think through testimonial you can see or judge their skill in and out of the bed?

21 response(s), 12 votes
chocman26 48 M
14  questions
OMG...WOW!!!!! - 6/27/2008

Hey Ladies and Gentlemen.....I hope that we are all haveing a great time out there!!!

Okay ...we all have had good partners...those that were okay...and those we could have done without.The ones that were Excellent in bed....was there something extra or different that a person did with or to you that just made you go crazy? Is there something( a certain move or position or ???) that ...

11 response(s), 15 votes